My Word for 2019

I've chosen a word every January 1st for the past seven (!) years and I can’t believe I just said that because I remember writing that first post like if it was yesterday.

Here they are so far:

2012: More

2013: Simplify

2014: Me

2015: Real

2016: Delight 

2017:  Power 

2018: Stellar

I really like that collection of words up there - it’s pretty amazing how they summarize the years when you look back at them. You’d think it would get harder to choose one after all this time, but not this year. This year, it was very easy.

This year, my word is CONNECTION, and here’s why:


1. a relation between things or events

2. the process of bringing ideas or events together in memory or imagination

3. the state of being connected

4. the act of bringing two things into contact (especially for communication)

It’s a pretty self-explanatory word, nowhere near as flashy as last year’s, but I guess that’s the point. What I want to focus on in 2019 are connections: Nurturing them, making new ones, and more importantly, finding new ways to connect.

After two years (perhaps more, if I’m honest) of inward work, I feel ready to connect more with the world. I find myself more and more curious about other people and their stories, which is interesting after so much time as an introvert. (It shouldn’t come as a surprise that my Myers-Briggs type has alternated between INFP and ENFP ever since the first time I took the test in college.)

But of course, there’s more than the obvious connections with other people. I want to also focus on how I can help connect ideas and communities, as well as connect what’s inside with what’s on the outside. I’m not even sure how I’m going to accomplish that, but I have 365 days to do that.

If you chose a word for 2019, I’d love to know what it is. Please let me know below!